fix: overhaul container lifecycle — recovery, health, uninstall, UI state

Container recovery:
- Health monitor: MAX_RESTART_ATTEMPTS 3→10, interval 60s→120s
- Dependency-aware restarts: won't restart services before their deps
- Reset dependent counters when a dependency recovers
- Handle "created" state containers (were invisible to health monitor)
- Added IndeedHub, mempool-api, mysql to tier system
- Crash recovery: podman start timeout 30s→120s with retry
- Podman client: socket timeout 5s→30s, added restart policy

UI state representation:
- Exit code 0 shows "stopped" (gray), not "crashed" (red)
- Exit code 137 shows "killed (OOM)"
- Non-zero exit shows "crashed" (red)
- Added exit_code field to PackageDataEntry

Install/uninstall fixes:
- Install returns error when container doesn't start (was silent success)
- Post-install hooks awaited instead of fire-and-forget tokio::spawn
- Uninstall: graceful rm before force, volume prune, network cleanup
- Uninstall returns error on partial failure (was 200 OK)

Config consistency:
- DB passwords read from /var/lib/archipelago/secrets/ (was hardcoded)
- Bitcoin: added ZMQ ports 28332/28333 for LND block notifications
- IndeedHub port 7777→8190 (was conflicting with strfry)
- Marketplace versions: LND 0.17.4→0.18.4, Mempool 2.5.0→3.0.0

Performance:
- Metrics collector interval 60s→300s (was duplicating health monitor)
- Podman client: proper error propagation instead of unwrap_or_default

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

neode-ui/src/views/Dashboard.vue

@@ -83,14 +83,15 @@
                 <div
                   v-if="route.path === '/dashboard/chat' || route.path === '/dashboard/mesh'"
                   :class="['h-full', mobileTabPaddingTop ? 'overflow-y-auto' : '']"
-                  :style="mobileTabPaddingTop ? { paddingTop: (mobileTabPaddingTop + 16) + 'px' } : undefined"
+                  :style="{ paddingTop: mobileTabPaddingTop ? (mobileTabPaddingTop + 16) + 'px' : undefined }"
+                  class="mobile-safe-top"
                 >
                   <component :is="Component" />
                 </div>
                 <div
                   v-else
                   :class="[
-                    'absolute inset-0 px-4 pt-4 md:pt-8 md:px-8 overflow-y-auto',
+                    'absolute inset-0 px-4 pt-4 md:pt-8 md:px-8 overflow-y-auto mobile-safe-top',
                     needsMobileBackButtonSpace
                       ? 'mobile-scroll-pad-back'
                       : 'mobile-scroll-pad'