fix: overhaul container lifecycle — recovery, health, uninstall, UI state

Container recovery:
- Health monitor: MAX_RESTART_ATTEMPTS 3→10, interval 60s→120s
- Dependency-aware restarts: won't restart services before their deps
- Reset dependent counters when a dependency recovers
- Handle "created" state containers (were invisible to health monitor)
- Added IndeedHub, mempool-api, mysql to tier system
- Crash recovery: podman start timeout 30s→120s with retry
- Podman client: socket timeout 5s→30s, added restart policy

UI state representation:
- Exit code 0 shows "stopped" (gray), not "crashed" (red)
- Exit code 137 shows "killed (OOM)"
- Non-zero exit shows "crashed" (red)
- Added exit_code field to PackageDataEntry

Install/uninstall fixes:
- Install returns error when container doesn't start (was silent success)
- Post-install hooks awaited instead of fire-and-forget tokio::spawn
- Uninstall: graceful rm before force, volume prune, network cleanup
- Uninstall returns error on partial failure (was 200 OK)

Config consistency:
- DB passwords read from /var/lib/archipelago/secrets/ (was hardcoded)
- Bitcoin: added ZMQ ports 28332/28333 for LND block notifications
- IndeedHub port 7777→8190 (was conflicting with strfry)
- Marketplace versions: LND 0.17.4→0.18.4, Mempool 2.5.0→3.0.0

Performance:
- Metrics collector interval 60s→300s (was duplicating health monitor)
- Podman client: proper error propagation instead of unwrap_or_default

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

neode-ui/src/views/appDetails/AppHeroSection.vue

@@ -15,10 +15,10 @@
         <div class="flex items-center gap-2">
           <span
             class="inline-flex items-center px-2.5 py-1 rounded-lg text-xs font-medium"
-            :class="getStatusClass(pkg.state, pkg.health)"
+            :class="getStatusClass(pkg.state, pkg.health, pkg['exit-code'])"
           >
-            <span class="w-1.5 h-1.5 rounded-full mr-1.5" :class="getStatusDotClass(pkg.state, pkg.health)"></span>
-            {{ getStatusLabel(pkg.state, pkg.health) }}
+            <span class="w-1.5 h-1.5 rounded-full mr-1.5" :class="getStatusDotClass(pkg.state, pkg.health, pkg['exit-code'])"></span>
+            {{ getStatusLabel(pkg.state, pkg.health, pkg['exit-code']) }}
           </span>
           <span class="text-white/50 text-xs">v{{ pkg.manifest.version }}</span>
         </div>
@@ -107,10 +107,10 @@
           <div class="flex flex-wrap items-center gap-2">
             <span
               class="inline-flex items-center px-2 py-0.5 rounded text-xs font-medium"
-              :class="getStatusClass(pkg.state, pkg.health)"
+              :class="getStatusClass(pkg.state, pkg.health, pkg['exit-code'])"
             >
-              <span class="w-1.5 h-1.5 rounded-full mr-1" :class="getStatusDotClass(pkg.state, pkg.health)"></span>
-              {{ getStatusLabel(pkg.state, pkg.health) }}
+              <span class="w-1.5 h-1.5 rounded-full mr-1" :class="getStatusDotClass(pkg.state, pkg.health, pkg['exit-code'])"></span>
+              {{ getStatusLabel(pkg.state, pkg.health, pkg['exit-code']) }}
             </span>
             <span class="text-white/50 text-xs">v{{ pkg.manifest.version }}</span>
           </div>