security+feat: v1.3.0 — pentest remediation, container reliability, UI overhaul

Security (33 pentest findings addressed):
- CRITICAL: backend binds 127.0.0.1, path traversal in tor.rs/dwn fixed
- HIGH: federation requires signatures, XSS login redirect, RBAC viewer restricted
- HIGH: tar slip prevention, S3 SSRF validation, backup ID validation
- MEDIUM: remember-me random secret, TOTP session rotation, password re-auth
- LOW: CSP unsafe-inline removed, CORS dev-only, onion/webhook validation

Container reliability:
- Memory limits on all 37 containers (OOM prevention)
- Exited vs stopped state distinction with health-aware status badges
- Crash recovery coordination (no more restart cascade)
- User-stopped tracking survives reboots
- Tiered boot recovery (databases → core → services → apps)

UI:
- Wallet TransactionsModal, health-aware app status badges
- Restart button on containers, exited/crashed red state
- Mesh view overhaul, glass button updates, BaseModal/ToggleSwitch
- Apps sticky header removed, dev faucet, mutable mock wallet

Infrastructure:
- LND REST port 8080 exposed over Tor (LND Connect fix)
- Nginx cookie_session fix, deploy script Tor config updated
- Dev environment: podman auto-start, boot mode simulation

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

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