security+feat: v1.3.0 — pentest remediation, container reliability, UI overhaul

Security (33 pentest findings addressed):
- CRITICAL: backend binds 127.0.0.1, path traversal in tor.rs/dwn fixed
- HIGH: federation requires signatures, XSS login redirect, RBAC viewer restricted
- HIGH: tar slip prevention, S3 SSRF validation, backup ID validation
- MEDIUM: remember-me random secret, TOTP session rotation, password re-auth
- LOW: CSP unsafe-inline removed, CORS dev-only, onion/webhook validation

Container reliability:
- Memory limits on all 37 containers (OOM prevention)
- Exited vs stopped state distinction with health-aware status badges
- Crash recovery coordination (no more restart cascade)
- User-stopped tracking survives reboots
- Tiered boot recovery (databases → core → services → apps)

UI:
- Wallet TransactionsModal, health-aware app status badges
- Restart button on containers, exited/crashed red state
- Mesh view overhaul, glass button updates, BaseModal/ToggleSwitch
- Apps sticky header removed, dev faucet, mutable mock wallet

Infrastructure:
- LND REST port 8080 exposed over Tor (LND Connect fix)
- Nginx cookie_session fix, deploy script Tor config updated
- Dev environment: podman auto-start, boot mode simulation

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

neode-ui/src/views/Monitoring.vue

@@ -102,14 +102,7 @@
           :key="rule.kind"
           class="flex items-center gap-3 p-3 bg-white/5 rounded-lg"
         >
-          <label class="monitoring-alert-toggle">
-            <input
-              type="checkbox"
-              :checked="rule.enabled"
-              @change="toggleAlertRule(rule.kind, !rule.enabled)"
-            />
-            <span class="monitoring-alert-toggle-slider"></span>
-          </label>
+          <ToggleSwitch :model-value="rule.enabled" @update:model-value="toggleAlertRule(rule.kind, $event)" />
           <div class="flex-1 min-w-0">
             <p class="text-sm text-white">{{ ruleLabel(rule.kind) }}</p>
             <p class="text-xs text-white/40">{{ rule.description }}</p>
@@ -223,6 +216,7 @@ import { ref, computed, onMounted, onUnmounted } from 'vue'
 import { useI18n } from 'vue-i18n'
 import { rpcClient } from '@/api/rpc-client'
 import LineChart from '@/components/LineChart.vue'
+import ToggleSwitch from '@/components/ToggleSwitch.vue'
 import type { ChartDataset } from '@/components/LineChart.vue'
 
 interface SystemMetrics {