diff --git a/packages/app/src/components/content/NostrGrid.vue b/packages/app/src/components/content/NostrGrid.vue
index 08847073..b41e6a25 100644
--- a/packages/app/src/components/content/NostrGrid.vue
+++ b/packages/app/src/components/content/NostrGrid.vue
@@ -18,6 +18,9 @@
     <!-- DMs sub-tab -->
     <NostrDMs v-if="activeSubTab === 'dms'" />
 
+    <!-- Relays sub-tab -->
+    <NostrRelayManager v-else-if="activeSubTab === 'relays'" />
+
     <!-- Feed sub-tab -->
     <template v-else>
     <div class="p-4 space-y-3 border-b border-white/[0.08]">
@@ -191,6 +194,7 @@
 <script setup lang="ts">
 import { ref, computed, onMounted, nextTick } from 'vue'
 import NostrDMs from './NostrDMs.vue'
+import NostrRelayManager from './NostrRelayManager.vue'
 import { useNostr, type NostrNote, type PublishResult } from '@/composables/useNostr'
 import { useNostrIdentity } from '@/composables/useNostrIdentity'
 
@@ -199,10 +203,11 @@ defineEmits<{ selectNote: [note: NostrNote] }>()
 const { events: notes, isConnected, relayStates, connect, publishEvent } = useNostr()
 const { isLoggedIn, signEvent } = useNostrIdentity()
 
-const activeSubTab = ref<'feed' | 'dms'>('feed')
+const activeSubTab = ref<'feed' | 'dms' | 'relays'>('feed')
 const subTabs = [
   { id: 'feed' as const, label: 'Feed' },
   { id: 'dms' as const, label: 'Messages' },
+  { id: 'relays' as const, label: 'Relays' },
 ]
 
 const search = ref('')
diff --git a/packages/app/src/components/content/NostrRelayManager.vue b/packages/app/src/components/content/NostrRelayManager.vue
new file mode 100644
index 00000000..c98118fa
--- /dev/null
+++ b/packages/app/src/components/content/NostrRelayManager.vue
@@ -0,0 +1,168 @@
+<template>
+  <div class="h-full flex flex-col">
+    <div class="p-4 border-b border-white/[0.08]">
+      <h3 class="text-sm font-bold text-white/90 mb-3">Relay Management</h3>
+
+      <!-- Add relay -->
+      <div class="flex gap-2">
+        <input
+          v-model="newRelayUrl"
+          type="text"
+          placeholder="wss://relay.example.com"
+          class="flex-1 px-3 py-2 rounded-lg text-xs bg-white/5 text-white/80 placeholder:text-white/25 outline-none focus:bg-white/10 transition-colors font-mono"
+          @keydown.enter="addNewRelay"
+        />
+        <button
+          class="px-3 py-2 rounded-lg text-[10px] bg-accent/15 text-accent/80 hover:bg-accent/25 transition-colors disabled:opacity-30"
+          :disabled="!newRelayUrl.trim()"
+          @click="addNewRelay"
+        >
+          Add
+        </button>
+      </div>
+    </div>
+
+    <div class="flex-1 overflow-y-auto custom-scrollbar px-4 pt-3 pb-16 space-y-2">
+      <div
+        v-for="relay in relayStates"
+        :key="relay.url"
+        class="rounded-xl bg-white/[0.03] border border-white/5 p-3 space-y-2"
+      >
+        <!-- Relay URL + status -->
+        <div class="flex items-center gap-2">
+          <span
+            class="w-2 h-2 rounded-full shrink-0"
+            :class="relay.connected ? 'bg-emerald-500' : 'bg-red-400/60'"
+          />
+          <span class="text-xs font-mono text-white/70 truncate flex-1">{{ relay.url }}</span>
+          <span
+            v-if="relay.latencyMs !== null"
+            class="text-[9px] tabular-nums shrink-0"
+            :class="relay.latencyMs < 200 ? 'text-emerald-400/60' : relay.latencyMs < 500 ? 'text-yellow-400/60' : 'text-red-400/60'"
+          >
+            {{ relay.latencyMs }}ms
+          </span>
+          <span
+            class="text-[9px] shrink-0"
+            :class="relay.connected ? 'text-emerald-400/60' : 'text-red-400/60'"
+          >
+            {{ relay.connected ? 'Connected' : 'Disconnected' }}
+          </span>
+        </div>
+
+        <!-- Controls -->
+        <div class="flex items-center gap-2">
+          <button
+            class="text-[9px] px-2 py-1 rounded transition-colors"
+            :class="relay.read
+              ? 'bg-accent/15 text-accent/80'
+              : 'bg-white/5 text-white/30 hover:text-white/50'"
+            @click="toggleRelayRead(relay.url)"
+          >
+            Read
+          </button>
+          <button
+            class="text-[9px] px-2 py-1 rounded transition-colors"
+            :class="relay.write
+              ? 'bg-accent/15 text-accent/80'
+              : 'bg-white/5 text-white/30 hover:text-white/50'"
+            @click="toggleRelayWrite(relay.url)"
+          >
+            Write
+          </button>
+          <div class="flex-1" />
+          <button
+            class="text-[9px] px-2 py-1 rounded bg-white/5 text-white/30 hover:text-white/50 transition-colors"
+            :disabled="testingRelay === relay.url"
+            @click="testConnection(relay.url)"
+          >
+            {{ testingRelay === relay.url ? 'Testing...' : 'Test' }}
+          </button>
+          <button
+            class="text-[9px] px-2 py-1 rounded bg-white/5 text-red-400/50 hover:text-red-400/80 hover:bg-red-400/10 transition-colors"
+            @click="removeRelay(relay.url)"
+          >
+            Remove
+          </button>
+        </div>
+
+        <!-- Test result -->
+        <p
+          v-if="testResults[relay.url] !== undefined"
+          class="text-[9px]"
+          :class="testResults[relay.url] !== null ? 'text-emerald-400/60' : 'text-red-400/60'"
+        >
+          {{ testResults[relay.url] !== null ? `Reachable (${testResults[relay.url]}ms)` : 'Unreachable' }}
+        </p>
+      </div>
+
+      <!-- Import NIP-65 -->
+      <div v-if="isLoggedIn" class="mt-4 pt-4 border-t border-white/5">
+        <button
+          class="w-full text-left px-3 py-2 rounded-lg text-[10px] bg-white/5 text-white/40 hover:text-white/60 hover:bg-white/10 transition-colors"
+          :disabled="isImporting"
+          @click="importFromNIP65"
+        >
+          {{ isImporting ? 'Importing...' : 'Import relays from NIP-65 (kind:10002)' }}
+        </button>
+        <p v-if="importMessage" class="text-[9px] mt-1 text-white/30">{{ importMessage }}</p>
+      </div>
+    </div>
+  </div>
+</template>
+
+<script setup lang="ts">
+import { ref, reactive } from 'vue'
+import { useNostr } from '@/composables/useNostr'
+import { useNostrIdentity } from '@/composables/useNostrIdentity'
+
+const { relayStates, addRelay, removeRelay, toggleRelayRead, toggleRelayWrite, testRelay, importNIP65Relays, fetchNote } = useNostr()
+const { isLoggedIn, pubkey } = useNostrIdentity()
+
+const newRelayUrl = ref('')
+const testingRelay = ref<string | null>(null)
+const testResults = reactive<Record<string, number | null>>({})
+const isImporting = ref(false)
+const importMessage = ref('')
+
+function addNewRelay() {
+  let url = newRelayUrl.value.trim()
+  if (!url) return
+  if (!url.startsWith('wss://') && !url.startsWith('ws://')) {
+    url = 'wss://' + url
+  }
+  addRelay(url)
+  newRelayUrl.value = ''
+}
+
+async function testConnection(url: string) {
+  testingRelay.value = url
+  const latency = await testRelay(url)
+  testResults[url] = latency
+  testingRelay.value = null
+}
+
+async function importFromNIP65() {
+  if (!pubkey.value) return
+  isImporting.value = true
+  importMessage.value = 'Fetching relay list...'
+
+  // Fetch kind:10002 for our pubkey from connected relays
+  const note = await fetchNote(pubkey.value, 5000)
+  if (note) {
+    importNIP65Relays({
+      id: note.id,
+      pubkey: note.pubkey,
+      kind: 10002,
+      content: note.content,
+      created_at: note.created_at,
+      tags: note.tags,
+      sig: '',
+    })
+    importMessage.value = 'Imported relays from NIP-65'
+  } else {
+    importMessage.value = 'No NIP-65 relay list found'
+  }
+  isImporting.value = false
+}
+</script>
diff --git a/packages/app/src/composables/useNostr.ts b/packages/app/src/composables/useNostr.ts
index e772a850..3ff03ff3 100644
--- a/packages/app/src/composables/useNostr.ts
+++ b/packages/app/src/composables/useNostr.ts
@@ -21,23 +21,53 @@ export interface NostrNote {
   tags: string[][]
 }
 
+export interface RelayConfig {
+  url: string
+  read: boolean
+  write: boolean
+}
+
+export interface RelayInfo {
+  url: string
+  connected: boolean
+  read: boolean
+  write: boolean
+  latencyMs: number | null
+}
+
 interface RelayState {
   url: string
   ws: WebSocket | null
   connected: boolean
+  read: boolean
+  write: boolean
+  latencyMs: number | null
+  connectTime: number | null
 }
 
-const RELAYS = [
-  'wss://relay.damus.io',
-  'wss://nos.lol',
-  'wss://relay.snort.social',
+const DEFAULT_RELAYS: RelayConfig[] = [
+  { url: 'wss://relay.damus.io', read: true, write: true },
+  { url: 'wss://nos.lol', read: true, write: true },
+  { url: 'wss://relay.snort.social', read: true, write: true },
 ]
 
+const STORAGE_KEY = 'aiui-nostr-relays'
+
+function loadRelayConfig(): RelayConfig[] {
+  try {
+    const stored = localStorage.getItem(STORAGE_KEY)
+    if (stored) return JSON.parse(stored)
+  } catch { /* ignore */ }
+  return DEFAULT_RELAYS
+}
+
+function saveRelayConfig(configs: RelayConfig[]) {
+  localStorage.setItem(STORAGE_KEY, JSON.stringify(configs))
+}
+
 const events = shallowRef<NostrNote[]>([])
 const isConnected = ref(false)
-const relayStates = ref<{ url: string; connected: boolean }[]>(
-  RELAYS.map(url => ({ url, connected: false }))
-)
+const relayStates = ref<RelayInfo[]>([])
 
 let relays: RelayState[] = []
 let subscriptionId: string | null = null
@@ -54,7 +84,6 @@ function truncatePubkey(pubkey: string): string {
 
 function parseEvent(data: unknown): NostrEvent | null {
   if (!Array.isArray(data)) return null
-  // NIP-01: ["EVENT", <subscription_id>, <event>]
   if (data[0] !== 'EVENT' || !data[2]) return null
   const evt = data[2]
   if (!evt.id || !evt.pubkey || typeof evt.kind !== 'number' || typeof evt.content !== 'string') {
@@ -64,7 +93,6 @@ function parseEvent(data: unknown): NostrEvent | null {
 }
 
 function addEvent(evt: NostrEvent) {
-  // Deduplicate by ID
   const existing = events.value.find(e => e.id === evt.id)
   if (existing) return
 
@@ -78,10 +106,9 @@ function addEvent(evt: NostrEvent) {
     tags: evt.tags ?? [],
   }
 
-  // Insert sorted by created_at (newest first)
   const newEvents = [...events.value, note]
     .sort((a, b) => b.created_at - a.created_at)
-    .slice(0, 200) // Cap at 200 events
+    .slice(0, 200)
 
   events.value = newEvents
 }
@@ -90,22 +117,20 @@ function connectRelay(relayState: RelayState) {
   if (relayState.ws) return
 
   try {
+    relayState.connectTime = Date.now()
     const ws = new WebSocket(relayState.url)
     relayState.ws = ws
 
     ws.onopen = () => {
       relayState.connected = true
+      relayState.latencyMs = relayState.connectTime ? Date.now() - relayState.connectTime : null
       updateRelayStates()
       isConnected.value = relays.some(r => r.connected)
 
-      // Subscribe to kind:1 (text notes) with limit 50
-      if (!subscriptionId) subscriptionId = generateSubId()
-      const req = JSON.stringify([
-        'REQ',
-        subscriptionId,
-        { kinds: [1], limit: 50 },
-      ])
-      ws.send(req)
+      if (relayState.read) {
+        if (!subscriptionId) subscriptionId = generateSubId()
+        ws.send(JSON.stringify(['REQ', subscriptionId, { kinds: [1], limit: 50 }]))
+      }
     }
 
     ws.onmessage = (msg) => {
@@ -113,21 +138,18 @@ function connectRelay(relayState: RelayState) {
         const data = JSON.parse(msg.data)
         const evt = parseEvent(data)
         if (evt) addEvent(evt)
-      } catch {
-        // Skip malformed messages
-      }
+      } catch { /* skip */ }
     }
 
     ws.onclose = () => {
       relayState.connected = false
       relayState.ws = null
+      relayState.latencyMs = null
       updateRelayStates()
       isConnected.value = relays.some(r => r.connected)
     }
 
-    ws.onerror = () => {
-      // Will trigger onclose
-    }
+    ws.onerror = () => { /* triggers onclose */ }
   } catch {
     relayState.connected = false
     updateRelayStates()
@@ -138,6 +160,9 @@ function updateRelayStates() {
   relayStates.value = relays.map(r => ({
     url: r.url,
     connected: r.connected,
+    read: r.read,
+    write: r.write,
+    latencyMs: r.latencyMs,
   }))
 }
 
@@ -145,7 +170,16 @@ function connect() {
   if (initialized) return
   initialized = true
 
-  relays = RELAYS.map(url => ({ url, ws: null, connected: false }))
+  const configs = loadRelayConfig()
+  relays = configs.map(c => ({
+    url: c.url,
+    ws: null,
+    connected: false,
+    read: c.read,
+    write: c.write,
+    latencyMs: null,
+    connectTime: null,
+  }))
   updateRelayStates()
   relays.forEach(r => connectRelay(r))
 }
@@ -154,9 +188,7 @@ function disconnect() {
   if (subscriptionId) {
     relays.forEach(r => {
       if (r.ws && r.connected) {
-        try {
-          r.ws.send(JSON.stringify(['CLOSE', subscriptionId]))
-        } catch { /* ignore */ }
+        try { r.ws.send(JSON.stringify(['CLOSE', subscriptionId])) } catch { /* ignore */ }
       }
     })
     subscriptionId = null
@@ -175,6 +207,81 @@ function disconnect() {
   initialized = false
 }
 
+function addRelay(url: string, read = true, write = true) {
+  if (relays.some(r => r.url === url)) return
+  const state: RelayState = { url, ws: null, connected: false, read, write, latencyMs: null, connectTime: null }
+  relays.push(state)
+  saveRelayConfig(relays.map(r => ({ url: r.url, read: r.read, write: r.write })))
+  updateRelayStates()
+  if (initialized) connectRelay(state)
+}
+
+function removeRelay(url: string) {
+  const idx = relays.findIndex(r => r.url === url)
+  if (idx === -1) return
+  const relay = relays[idx]
+  if (relay.ws) {
+    relay.ws.close()
+    relay.ws = null
+  }
+  relays.splice(idx, 1)
+  saveRelayConfig(relays.map(r => ({ url: r.url, read: r.read, write: r.write })))
+  updateRelayStates()
+  isConnected.value = relays.some(r => r.connected)
+}
+
+function toggleRelayRead(url: string) {
+  const relay = relays.find(r => r.url === url)
+  if (!relay) return
+  relay.read = !relay.read
+  saveRelayConfig(relays.map(r => ({ url: r.url, read: r.read, write: r.write })))
+  updateRelayStates()
+}
+
+function toggleRelayWrite(url: string) {
+  const relay = relays.find(r => r.url === url)
+  if (!relay) return
+  relay.write = !relay.write
+  saveRelayConfig(relays.map(r => ({ url: r.url, read: r.read, write: r.write })))
+  updateRelayStates()
+}
+
+function testRelay(url: string): Promise<number | null> {
+  return new Promise((resolve) => {
+    const start = Date.now()
+    const timer = setTimeout(() => resolve(null), 5000)
+    try {
+      const ws = new WebSocket(url)
+      ws.onopen = () => {
+        const latency = Date.now() - start
+        clearTimeout(timer)
+        ws.close()
+        resolve(latency)
+      }
+      ws.onerror = () => {
+        clearTimeout(timer)
+        resolve(null)
+      }
+    } catch {
+      clearTimeout(timer)
+      resolve(null)
+    }
+  })
+}
+
+function importNIP65Relays(event: NostrEvent) {
+  if (event.kind !== 10002) return
+  for (const tag of event.tags) {
+    if (tag[0] === 'r' && tag[1]) {
+      const url = tag[1]
+      const marker = tag[2]
+      const read = !marker || marker === 'read'
+      const write = !marker || marker === 'write'
+      addRelay(url, read, write)
+    }
+  }
+}
+
 export interface PublishResult {
   url: string
   success: boolean
@@ -182,12 +289,10 @@ export interface PublishResult {
 }
 
 function publishEvent(signedEvent: NostrEvent): Promise<PublishResult[]> {
-  const connectedRelays = relays.filter(r => r.connected && r.ws)
-  if (connectedRelays.length === 0) {
-    return Promise.resolve([])
-  }
+  const writeRelays = relays.filter(r => r.connected && r.ws && r.write)
+  if (writeRelays.length === 0) return Promise.resolve([])
 
-  const results = connectedRelays.map(relay => {
+  const results = writeRelays.map(relay => {
     return new Promise<PublishResult>((resolve) => {
       const timer = setTimeout(() => {
         resolve({ url: relay.url, success: false, message: 'Timeout' })
@@ -196,7 +301,6 @@ function publishEvent(signedEvent: NostrEvent): Promise<PublishResult[]> {
       const handler = (msg: MessageEvent) => {
         try {
           const data = JSON.parse(msg.data)
-          // NIP-01: ["OK", <event_id>, <accepted>, <message>]
           if (Array.isArray(data) && data[0] === 'OK' && data[1] === signedEvent.id) {
             clearTimeout(timer)
             relay.ws?.removeEventListener('message', handler)
@@ -220,14 +324,11 @@ function publishEvent(signedEvent: NostrEvent): Promise<PublishResult[]> {
     })
   })
 
-  // Also add to our local feed
   addEvent(signedEvent)
-
   return Promise.all(results)
 }
 
 function fetchNote(hexId: string, timeoutMs = 5000): Promise<NostrNote | null> {
-  // Check if already cached
   const cached = events.value.find(e => e.id === hexId)
   if (cached) return Promise.resolve(cached)
 
@@ -238,8 +339,7 @@ function fetchNote(hexId: string, timeoutMs = 5000): Promise<NostrNote | null> {
       if (!resolved) { resolved = true; resolve(null) }
     }, timeoutMs)
 
-    // Try the first connected relay
-    const relay = relays.find(r => r.connected && r.ws)
+    const relay = relays.find(r => r.connected && r.ws && r.read)
     if (!relay?.ws) {
       clearTimeout(timer)
       resolve(null)
@@ -277,7 +377,6 @@ function fetchNote(hexId: string, timeoutMs = 5000): Promise<NostrNote | null> {
 
 export function useNostr() {
   onUnmounted(() => {
-    // Clean up on component unmount
     disconnect()
   })
 
@@ -289,5 +388,11 @@ export function useNostr() {
     disconnect,
     fetchNote,
     publishEvent,
+    addRelay,
+    removeRelay,
+    toggleRelayRead,
+    toggleRelayWrite,
+    testRelay,
+    importNIP65Relays,
   }
 }